How many chances have already passed you with approaching a hot girl just because you were too afraid of her rejection? Regardless of the number, if you are a man who knows your way around seduction and makes a point of presenting yourself as an aloof air .You’ll know it’s a lot easier for a girl to approach you instead of the other way round. Maintain a confidence posture; make yourself known amongst people at the party or bar that you are fun and easygoing. It’s really that simple. Once you are no longer a social stranger, girls can approach you with confidence.
1. Be constantly moving around
Being in different places will help you navigate your way around the environment and meet a wide range of people. Pretend as though you are hosting a function: there are always things to do, someplace to be, someone to entertain. A casual greeting with a jovial character will make you seem throughout the room as an easy to approach person.
2. Make people around like you
As you go around the room. Make sure you are mingling around with respect for every person you encounter and your aim is to make everyone have a fantastic time. If you arrive earlier, try to build up rapport with the supporting staff. They will remember your friendliness and sure to toss you favors that will help patronize the attributes of your social powers.
3. Position yourself at a advantageous location
Positioning yourself might seem pointless, but having an advantageous location to spend your time at a bar will help make your social status. You want to be that approachably guy that people notices and favors by end of the night. All this can be done while just being sexy and charismatic, and soon, the girls that have been noticing you all night will feel comfortable to approach you.
4. Introduce yourself to everyone
Remember your aim is to be well recognized throughout the party or event, regardless of the situation where there will be groups of people who usually don’t talk or would even ignore you. Greet anyone or everyone. While you might think that the girl over at the bar is smoking hot, thinking she will never notice you. If you aren’t doing this it is likely that she will find you attractive yet unapproachable. The key is to demonstrate that you are hot sexy charismatic, but you are not too good for anyone. So girls you have your eyes on feels that you are approachable
5. Have your appearance stand out
All those efforts spent socializing in the world won’t really get you noticed if your appearance blends in. You want the people around you to notice you and recognize you easily. Don’t go over the moon. Stay within your comfort-zone (in the attire you chose) and pick out attires that speaks your personality. Put yourself up a level. Example: maybe dress a little more formal than everyone else, so you stand out from the average.
Practice makes perfect, one of the important factor is having confidence in the spotlight. You might go through a few hard knocks to get yourself inclined to these. Confidence, swag and being friendly, every girl will want you. The next thing you’ll need to do is choose.